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Wisdom’s Therapy - Forgive Your Enemies

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

It’s very hard to forgive our enemies, especially if what they do against us is very serious and the damage caused cannot be corrected. Sometimes, it’s hard to forgive even something insignificant.

However, your peace does not depend on other people’s behaviour. You will keep your balance and be calm in any situation, so that you don’t lose your peace or do anything worse against your enemies in trying to get your ex-girlfriend revenge.

The idea of ex-girlfriend revenge is totally absurd and based on human evil. The pleasure to punish our enemies is a demonstration of craziness since we should not desire to see anyone suffering, even if it is our worst enemy. Many people disagree with this concept because they believe that the pleasure of seeing their enemies suffer is a logical pleasure, after being their victims. But it is not, because this is absurd reasoning.

Would you like to take the ex-girlfriend revenge of a lion if it killed someone you loved? No, because you know that a wild animal has no notion of its actions. This is the way you have to consider murderers and all those who attack you and make you suffer. They act like animals because they are really very wild animals. Human conscience’s biggest part is totally wild and violent. So, there is no meaning in desiring ex-girlfriend revenge.

People who feel injured cannot forgive their enemies, but they have to understand that it’s not their fault if they cannot control their behaviour and respect other human beings. At a certain point of their lives, they could have prevented the crazy content from dominating their conscience, but they didn’t fight against its invasion because they didn’t know how to. This is very common-most people are very far from balance and wisdom…

The comprehension one acquires after analysing all points of existence shows that there is no meaning in hatred. Even those who commit terrible crimes should be forgiven because they have no control over their behaviour. They require psychotherapy since they are dominated by the wild part of their conscience, which is very violent and evil.

The human being evolved too little in comparison with the part of ones conscience that still remains in a primitive condition. One easily looses the human, sensible and sensitive part of one’s conscience, becoming a victim of one’s primitive conscience. Each cruel murderer is a victim of his or her evil side. We must forgive and have mercy on them, instead of hating them for their actions. They cannot control or understand the meaning of their actions, even though they give us the impression that they know very well what they are doing.

The murderer’s acts are controlled by his or her primitive conscience, which is an actor and pretends that it is human, whereas it is actually evil. The murderers are hypnotized by their wild side, that’s why everything they do is inhuman, even though they seem to be the same human being they were before the invasion of the wild content into the human part of their conscience.

At this stage of domination, the wild conscience can oblige them do anything, even a crime against the people they love, because they are not themselves. Their personality was damaged and they became robots, without feelings.

If we can understand this sad reality, we can also understand that we would only feel sad, but never hate people who are dominated by their evil wild side because they become their own victims. They only suffer while they cause suffering to others and the pleasure they feel when they kill is totally crazy. It’s a distorted reaction that reflects their mental illness.

The same thing happens even when they don’t kill us with arms, but with their cruel and inconsequent actions or with their indifference to our pain, by filling our life with terror. We must forgive them and have pity on them because they do not have a human behaviour. They are dominated by the worst side of their psychic sphere and, therefore, need help.

Would you hate and want to take ex-girlfriend revenge on a schizophrenic who lives in a clinic on heavy medication daily so that he may stop wanting to kill everyone?

You have to consider people who do anything against you as you consider crazy people who have serious psychic diseases because even the minimum evil is already too much poison for one’s soul.

Have only pity on your enemies and always forgive them when they do something horrible against you because they’ll suffer much more than you did, when they understand the meaning of their actions. Moreover, they already suffer very much because they have lost their human side and, with it, their goodness, their peace of mind and their future, because they can only get lost in the labyrinth of craziness they are in now. Without the necessary therapy, people who started losing their human conscience and doing crazy and harmful things against others cannot recuperate their human conscience.

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Born With The Moon In Scorpio

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

According to Astrology, the exact location of the moon during the time of your birth determines your emotional reaction to the world around you. While the astrological sun colors your outwardly aggressive actions, the moon dictates your inner, passive or receptive urges. The moon is your “female energy” - she represents the type of nurturing energy you project, and/or the type of mothering you received as a child. Today we will discuss the Moon in Scorpio.

The Scorpio Moon: Joy and Pain

The Moon is literally in its fall, or denouement, in this sign. For this reason, Scorpio Moon folks are known to grapple with themselves on the inside. They typically experience all emotions extremely, deeply and totally - ecstasy, sorrow, elation… and yes, their tempers, when provoked, can be explosive. To complicate matters, Scorpio Moon people regard their own emotions as a source of vulnerability and therefore try to keep their true feelings under wraps. So, it’s not surprising that while many Scorpio Moons are traveling this earth feeling everything very intensely, they’re also wearing this kind of detached look. After all, if they were to be found out, there would be very grave consequences indeed. What those consequences might be is anybody’s guess… but if the Scorpio Moon is the one doing the imagining, it’s sure to be quite catastrophic.

The Scorpio Moon, in a nutshell: intensity. Intense likes, intense dislikes, intense fascination, intense disgust… and yes, in keeping with the general Scorpio reputation, intense love affairs. This is a very black-and-white, all-or-nothing moon with extremely fixed notions about things. If you’re loved by a Scorpio Moon then you are loved fiercely, totally and completely; but if you’re despised by a Scorpio Moon, then you may as well not exist. And it’s quite possible in dealing with this turbulent moon native that both emotions may be directed at you at different points in this lifetime. If a Scorpio Moon perceives that you have slighted them in some way… better make good immediately, or run and hide until the mood passes, because in all likelihood, ex-girlfriend revenge is being plotted against YOUR head!

The Scorpio Moon: Offsetting the Drama With Private Relaxation

Scorpio Moon people tend to go through life acting on hunches, “reading between the lines” - picking up subtle nonverbal cues, moods, intentions, underlying messages and such. Indeed, someone with this moon placement may get a very different meaning from the same conversation heard by someone with a more literal and pragmatic mind. This is not only quite distracting to the moon native, but when they react to these perceptions it often leads to undesired consequences and drama. Thus, the irony of the Scorpio Moon; being consumed by the very internal composition one despises in himself, and attracting drama-infused situations as a direct result of trying to avoid them.

A troubled Scorpion Moon person should allow herself some distance from time to time… a private sanctuary where she can sort out her emotions, get a healthy perspective and then emerge from the “cocoon” with renewed inner peace and a higher purpose in mind. Indeed, reflection and meditation feels quite natural to this introspective moon native and is encouraged as a way to take the edge off and temper the extreme moods. A deeply sensitive soul, capable of great courage and strength… there is much room for psychological growth and wisdom to be gained with this lunar positioning.

The Scorpio Moon: A Powerful Force for Good OR Evil

As with any sign, there are both positives and negatives to the Scorpio Moon placement. The sign of Scorpio has been assigned two symbols- the Scorpion and the Eagle. The former, a covert creature who stealths along the ground; and the latter, a symbol of power and might, soaring into the high heavens. Lows and highs… the Scorpio Moon is quite familiar with both states of consciousness… more than most, in fact.

Spiritually evolved Scorpio Moon souls can (and should) harness the gift of their emotional intensity and move proverbial mountains with it. If a Scorpio Moon person is intrinsically good, then that goodness of spirit can manifest itself in divine ways… extreme compassion and generosity toward fellow man, great and unshakeable integrity, impeccably honest conduct in business and personal affairs, and a permanent seat on the side of righteousness and justice. An enlightened Scorpio Moon will pledge his whole self to any and every cause he deems important; profess his undying faith to his family, home, country; and even make the ultimate sacrifice in a lifelong promise to serve God. Yes, this moon placement is often found in religious leaders, as the spiritual aspect is heavily emphasized here.

Less evolved Scorpio moons, on the other hand, are not averse to using abject means to get what they want. The concentration of power in this sign placement has led many a wayward Scorpio lunar native down a dark and devious path of corruption. In direct contrast to their enlightened counterparts; illicit affairs, illegal and underhanded dealings, petty and deceitful behavior, psychological turmoil, and loyalty to no one but themselves are trademark signs of the afflicted Scorpio Moon. Again, this is all due to the fact that Scorpio is in the moon’s fall, thus making emotions feel uncomfortable, unnatural and all-encompassing. With the all-or-nothing theme at work, indeed this placement will produce some extreme results.

The Scorpio Moon and Sex

It has been said that sexual impulses drive the Scorpio Moon native moreso than other moon signs, perhaps because they radiate such passion and intensity that they’re forever in need of release. The Scorpio Moon is equated with transcendental lovemaking or “soul sex” in which the participants experience an exalted state of consciousness by way of the physical sex act itself. Clearly, while “sexual nirvana” is hardly a day-to-day occurrence, this moon person has been labeled as having an extra potential for such achievements. At the very least, this moon person admits to having a high sex drive, even allowing sex to affect his or her decisions at certain points in life.

The Scorpio Moon as a Nurturer

The Scorpio Moon Nurturer is fiercely protective and psychologically all-consuming. Scorpio Moon Mothers, or “Smothers” as they are sometimes known, must learn to temper their intensity. If the Scorpio lover is possessive in her affairs, the Scorpio mother is equally possessive of her children. It will be her ongoing challenge to “let go.” These moon natives must get a reign on that fretfulness that leads to strings of sleepless nights, and interfere less in the daily trials and tribulations of their young sons and daughters. Scorpio Moon Mothers must generally permit themselves to chill out, cool down and back off. An earth-sign or earth moon-sign partner can lend a comforting and grounding effect for the Scorpio nurturer who has let the worrying get out of hand yet again.

Other signature themes and preoccupations of the Scorpio Moon: secrets, mysteries, severity, psychology, power, control, passion, ex-girlfriend revenge, obsession, loyalty, sex, depth of feeling, ethics, spirituality, solitude, death. No, the Scorpio moon is surely not made of green cheese, but rather some of the most powerful facets of human existence. This lunar native must learn to embrace the reality of his or her own emotions as opposed to running or hiding from them. If the Scorpio Moon person can navigate his or her own spirit to a higher and more exalted place, he will recognize the potential for complete and total happines that lies within himself… and the transformation will be powerful for certain.

Copyright 2005 Dina Giolitto. All rights reserved.

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Is Your Marriage Becoming Sexless? Advice For Women Facing a Sexless Marriage

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

Marriage without the intimacy and release of sex becomes a dull and fragile thing which can destroy a good marriage by sucking the joy and closeness out of what should be an amazing experience in love, physically, spiritually and mentally. If all these great things are enabled by making love why is your marriage becoming sexless? There are a few conclusions women will come to when trying to define this problem but unfortunately most of them are wrong!

Many women take the path of self loathing believing that their husband does not find them attractive anymore; perhaps they think they have put on weight or do not have time to dress up anymore or they think that whatever fire of passion that was there has gone out because they are too familiar or that life is hard. In any case the wife blames herself which is terrible for mental health and confidence which becomes another issue. Why this is so wrong is that men appreciate confidence in their women just as women like confidence in men, a wife who wallows in self pity because she feels unattractive becomes the thing she does not want to be psychologically and eventually physically driving home a sexless marriage complex that infects both partners

The opposite spectrum are women who blame their man, perhaps they suspect him of having affairs or that he has become impotent and lost his sex drive. This can lead to resentment and sometimes to the wife having affairs as ex-girlfriend revenge or as a release which only makes matters much worse in a sexless marriage

So what is the REAL reason your marriage is becoming sexless? This is a complex issue but what many marriage counselors and therapists have found over the years is that men who stop having sex with their wives are rarely having affairs and nearly always still love their partner very much. What does this mean? It means the problem is more often than not the mans and often it is psychological.

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Men Aren’t AFRAID of Commitment

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

Men commit to what they want. If a man wants to get a degree, he’ll commit to doing the work to get it. If a man wants to buy a nice car, he’ll work his butt off so that he can afford it. If a man wants a booty call girl, he’ll do whatever it takes to make sure he gets a little something.

You get what I mean?

Men are not afraid of commitment, they just don’t want to commit to being with a woman that they don’t feel an intense and unforgettable attraction to. So if you buy the excuse that men are afraid of commitment, men won’t commit to you.

Because it is your fear that a man might not commit to you that is keeping away real commitment. You’ll actually attract men who are emotionally unavailable because they are tuning in to your set of beliefs about commitment.

When you begin to have an inner shift about what you deserve, all of a sudden you’ll begin to attract the sort of men who’ll hunt you down to make a commitment to you.

When you have this sort of attitude, men will beg you for attention. The kind of essence that you portray when you are in control of you, will cause men to chase you down.

This is the sort of self-control my ex-girlfriend revenge used when she started dating her husband. She played it so cool that the poor guy couldn’t even eat on their first date. She just engaged him in the conversation and acted as though she wasn’t moved by the whole thing.

It’s not a game, it’s called being smart enough to not lay your cards on the table and being woman enough to be in control of you.

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ex-girlfriend revenge Back After Divorce">How To Get Your ex-girlfriend revenge Back After Divorce

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

People sometimes do marry the same person twice believe it or not

It’s not impossible to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back after you have divorced. If you want to know how to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back after divorce you could look for inspiration at one of the most famous examples of people marrying twice. The actor Richard Burton remarried Elizabeth Taylor again after they got divorced. But how can two people that have gone through the trauma of divorce, ever get back together again?

It’s a lot easier to prevent divorce before it gets to the point of legal separation and finality but the process of patching things up and getting back together again is the same whether you have divorced or not.

I’m not a marriage councillor nor did I manage to prevent my 20-year relationship from breaking up amicably when we had drifted apart. Over the years I’ve watched as many of my friends got divorced and I’ve noticed a few things that are common in all these situations including my own.

The broken relationships that I’ve witnessed seemed to fail either because neither partner wanted to save it, or just one of the pair wanted to and used techniques that appeared very reasonable at the time but were completely ineffective.

If at least one of you wants to stop divorce then you have a chance to do so

I guess that there’s nothing to be done when neither partner wants to save the marriage but there has to be at least a chance if one of you does. So what is it that so many people in this situation do wrong?

Perhaps they try too hard. They plead with their partner to reconsider and promise that they will change their ways. This is natural human behaviour and most would consider it a reasonable course to take but it rarely works unfortunately. If you’re trying to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back after a divorce or prevent your marriage breaking up then pleading is the last thing you should do. You should be concentrating on making yourself more attractive to your partner instead of persuading her that you’re weak by pleading and lying about changes that you’ll make that she knows that you won’t.

Be strong, that’s how to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back after divorce

Don’t plead, don’t argue and don’t become inconsistent by agreeing with her opinion just because you think that’s what she wants to hear. Be strong, dress well and start to take charge of your own life. Show her that you can live without her; she just might decide that she’s missing something by not being with you.

Women are attracted to men who are strong and capable of protecting them. They’re repulsed by weak pleading and prefer to do the chasing themselves. So be strong, confident, self sufficient and consistent with your opinions. It could make all the difference and the secret of how to get your ex-girlfriend revenge back after divorce.

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ex-girlfriend revenge Really Regret Cheating?">Does Your ex-girlfriend revenge Really Regret Cheating?

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

Does Your ex-girlfriend revenge Really Regret Cheating? In my opinion there are many ways a ex-girlfriend revenge can be cheating on you. In my opinion, all it takes for someone to cheat on you is for someone to have feelings for someone else.

When a ex-girlfriend revenge cheats and she wants to keep you, personally I would not believe her. I know you love her, and what you had was fantastic, but in reality was it really? She cheated on you. She had feelings for another guy.

I know you want to work things out with your lady friend so I am going to analyze if you can really trust that she regrets cheating.

Did your ex-girlfriend revenge walk up to you and tell you that she cheated on you and she regrets it. If she did this then you could probably bet that she is being sincere.

I’m not saying that you should forgive her, but it is definitely giving her some “brownie points” for telling you directly. Even though this would be a girl’s best option if she wanted to seriously have a future with you after she cheated, many girls do not see honesty as the best answer and make you find out in other ways.

Many times girls are conniving and sneaky cheaters. They text their new man behind your back, see them behind your back and lie to you constantly each and every day. Every time they say “I love you” to you they are lying.

They may claim they are not, but who says “I love you” and is cheating on the person they are saying it to. If you find out that girl is cheating through a friend, or because you caught her, I say that you must let her go. She may claim she regrets it, but that should be no reason for you to forgive.

Think about it this way: Would you have gone behind your ex-girlfriend revenge’s back, cheated on her, lied to her, and not ever tell her about it? Well if you answered, no then she does not deserve to be with you because she just did that to you.

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Am I the Narcissist? A Look at Inverted Narcissism

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

In my work with victims of narcissistic abuse I am more often than not asked the same question: “How do I know I’m not the Narcissist?”

When I asked my own therapist this question so many years ago she answered “If you were the narcissist you wouldn’t be asking that question, because narcissist’s won’t see that the problem is with them.” They are too busy projecting the issues onto those around them.

However our own narcissism is an issue worth exploring in more detail. For example: Why do we ask that question to begin with. What is it that makes us feel we are the narcissist?

In talking to a client today I had a big realization. She was telling me how she was always disappointed in her previous boyfriends or partners. They just didn’t measure up to her expectations. As we dug a little deeper she explained how she has wavered between feelings of superiority and feelings of inferiority. She has built her own illusion or idea of who she was which in her own reality placed herself upon a pedestal. So in a sense she was doing the same thing a narcissistic personality would do. She sheltered herself from her feelings of inferiority by placing herself upon a pedestal. That pedestal created a false confidence.

So when the narcissistic personality comes into her life her false confidence is initially mirrored by the narcissist who reflects to her the image worthy of the pedestal she has placed herself upon. But as the relationship progresses her feelings of inferiority are triggered as he projects his own inferiority upon her. Now she is experiencing the feeling of having her mate disappointed in her inadequacy just as she has been disappointed in past partners for their inadequacy.

What is the difference than between the narcissistic partner and the one who feels abused? Compassion and Empathy! The client I was talking to today, identified with her partners feelings of superiority and also with his feelings of inadequacy. She had empathy for him. She didn’t want to see him hurt because she knows how painful it is to experience those same kinds of feelings. A pathological narcissist could give a rip about his partners hurt feelings. He is only concerned with himself and his own needs.

The inverted narcissist, as Sam Vaknin calls it, is the perfect match for the pathological narcissist. Because when their false selves meet, the illusion of who they believe themselves to be is reinforced to a point where it may feel like Cinderella meeting her prince who takes her out of her hell hole, where she is made to wear rags and sweep ashes all day. Suddenly she is swept off her feet, she fits the glass slipper perfectly, and is carried off to the Castle adorned with beautiful gowns and riches fit for the queen she is.

Perhaps in this fairy tale, Cinderella always fantasized herself to be a queen, but she lived the reality of being an ash maiden. She was ridiculed and condemned by those around her and made to feel unworthy of the good things in life. But she would show them someday. She would show them she was really a queen.

For those of us who come from painful childhoods where we were somehow made to feel inferior, we can easily create fantasy worlds where we escape into never never land. We imagine ourselves as fairy princesses and imagine our prince riding up on a white horse and sweeping us off our feet, carrying us from our humble reality to a great castle where we are treated as a queen should be treated.

In the psychic realm the psychosis of the pathological narcissist is a great match for the fantasy world of the inverted narcissist. Because in the world of make believe a great fantasy is created where the King and the Queen of never never land get together and ride off into the sunset. It is such a beautiful love story, in the beginning.

But all glass slippers eventually break and so do the glass houses the “ideal” couple reside in. There love is not built on anything real, but rather an illusion of perfection created by both parties. She is saying “be my prince” and he is saying “be my queen.” But once they settle into the Castle the true selves begin to emerge. The feelings of inferiority begin to surface. Both partners don’t really want to be found out, less they risk losing their status upon that pedestal. “What if she finds out I’m really a frog?” He might think. And she might wonder “what if he knows the truth of me, that I’m only an ash sweeper?”

The narcissistic dance is really a dance of ego’s. It is an escape from the true self. For the true self has never been discovered and cultivated. The narcissistic facade is a preservation of the ego that needs to appear larger than it is. From that wounded little child he inflates his lowly sense of self into something others would envy. He strives for greatness, not for the sake of the task but for ex-girlfriend revenge against those who would mock him for his inferiority.

We see this scenario played out often in the movies where the ugly geek grows into the beautiful swan or the handsome prince and is the envy of those who used to taunt him. But inside he may still feel like the ugly duckling. A true pathological narcissist is so clever at hiding from that ugly duckling within that he hides it from himself. He is no longer really aware of those feelings. He is cut off from them. Where his victim is likely very much in touch with those feelings. She feels the depth of the pain being triggered by his poor treatment and lack of consideration for her. It triggers all those feelings of unworthiness that she has been running from most of her life.

If the inverted narcissist doesn’t grab this opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth she will likely just fall back into her old ways and re-create a similar scenario. But the opportunity is there for a great transformation. One that comes from truly embracing the self and becoming real! We peel away the layers of who we are not and cultivate the truth of who we are. This begins with embracing that little wounded child who has been rejected, taunted, teased and made to feel inferior in so many ways. We can begin by having compassion for that child within in the same way we found ourselves having compassion for the narcissist in our lives.

Once we own that rejected part of ourselves there is no longer a need to hide her from the world behind a fantasy illusion. We no longer need to be seen as “the queen” but are alright with just being ordinary. Ironically once we accept our ordinary-ness we actually do begin to stand out, for real. Because we stop trying to be something we are not and start accepting who we really are. Our true selves always carry the greatest light.

As I work with more and more victims of narcissistic abuse I begin to see Narcissism as the catalyst for personal transformation. The narcissistic abuse spirals us into our deepest, most fragile aspect of self, the wounded, rejected child within. I used to believe we were just taking on the projection of the narcissist, but I’m coming to realize this isn’t true. This is the very part of the narcissist we identify with. He too has the same cast away, lost, rejected inner child, covered over by an illusion of grandiosity. So our work is not to simply stop taking on the projections of the narcissist in our lives, but rather allowing ourselves to make that decent into the deepest, darkest places within our psyche and rescuing that rejected child within.

Ironically once we accept our inadequacies, we no longer feel so inadequate. We come to understand that nobody is perfect, including us. We make mistakes, we have faults, we have areas where we are ashamed of ourselves, and now we simply admit these realizations to ourselves. Instead of taking the inventory of the narcissist in our lives we take our own inventory and list the areas where we have deceived ourselves. When we finally see that being imperfect is being real, we accept ourselves just the way we are and stop trying to be something we are not.

Becoming real is a process. I call it growing up. We peel away those layers of who we are not, in order to refine who we really are. And…we come to see ourselves as beautiful even with our flaws. In actuality it is our flaws that make us unique and beautiful. Perfection is the illusion!

We may be angry initially that we are cast into the deep pain of self reflection and personal growth while the narcissist is off in another fairy tale; but instead of envying him for his ignorance, we should instead thank him for the gift he has given us. He has brought us to our true selves. The pain of discovery may be great initially, but it is well worth the journey, because now we can truly live and we can truly love. Once we accept the imperfections in ourselves we can accept the imperfections of our future mates and have a much greater opportunity for real love.

Kaleah LaRoche is an Author, Holistic Counselor, Minister and Musician. She specializes in Spiritual Recovery for the Victims of Narcissistic Abuse. Kaleah has written two books on narcissism and abuse that she offers as downloads from her Website. She also offers lots of free information, a support forum, soul recovery and counseling. To learn more about Kaleah’s work visit her Website: http://www.narcissismfree.com

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The Arrival of the Milesians in Ireland

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

An Leabhar Gabala (The Book of Invasions, c. eleventh century) details the origins of the Gaelic people. They descended from the Goideal Glas, who came from Scythia (a vast area covering present day Ukraine, South West Russia and Central Asia), and Scota, a daughter of an Egyptian Pharaoh. Their descendants left Egypt at the time of the Exodus of Moses, they wandered until they arrived in the Iberian Peninsula, where they settled. Breogan built a tower at Brigantia (in present day Galicia) from the top of which his son Ith first saw Ireland.

Ith made an expedition to Ireland but was killed by the Tuatha De Dannan, in ex-girlfriend revenge the eight sons of Ith’s brother Mil Espaine landed in Co. Kerry and fought their way to Tara, eventually defeating the Tuatha De Dannan. The Milesians divided the country amongst their principal leaders, establishing themselves as the dominant class. TF O’Rahilly proposed that the descent of the kings of Ireland from the kings of Mil is a fiction created to provide legitimacy for the Goidels who invaded Irealand in the second century BC, giving them the same origin as the people they dominated. As late as the seventeenth century Geoffrey Keating utilised the myth to promote the claim of the Stuart dynasty to reign over Ireland, demonstrating that Charles I was descended through Brian Boru, Eber and Galamh, from Noah and from Adam.

Until the late nineteenth century historians readily accepted that The Book of Invasions was an accurate and true account of the history of Ireland. Eoin MacNeill was the first commentator to cast doubt on it, in his seminal works - Phases of Irish History and Celtic Ireland. Subsequently, historians have being divided as to whether The Book of Invasions is a mere fiction, concocted for a number of reasons including an attempt to debase the early pagan religions by transforming their gods into mere mortals, and the other school of thought who maintain that it is a historical work of merit. O’Rahilly in his Early Irish History and Mythology concludes that fact and fiction blend in the early Irish manuscripts and that we must tread with caution to decipher which is which when we are trawling the ancient primary sources.

Russell Shortt is a travel consultant with Exploring Ireland, the leading specialists in customised, private escorted tours, escorted coach tours and independent self drive tours of Ireland.

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Is My Husband Cheating

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

If you are in a marriage and you think your husband is cheating, make sure you’re right before you make any accusations. If he thinks you don’t trust him after falsely accusing him that could be detrimental to the marriage in the long run. Now if your sure he is cheating on you, then here are the signs to confirm your feeling.

When a man is cheating on his ex-girlfriend revenge, small changes in his behavior can be noticed. If he is always calling you from work and telling you he has to stay after late every day that could be a problem. You have to think to yourself, when you first got married was his boss making him stay late a lot? Or did these calls just start happening when the marriage started to go bad?

Are you noticing that he is not as compassionate as he was before? If your man is not giving you enough attention in the bedroom or just not being affectionate enough in general, that could be a problem. When man do that, its most likely because they feel bad about being with another women and they don’t want to hurt their ex-girlfriend revenge.

If you and your husband have always had a open relationship when it comes to telling each other that something is wrong, but he stops talking. That’s a problem. For any marriage to work there has to be conversation on a daily basis. You have to try and talk with him about how you feel and you must be quiet and let him respond back. Well hope this article helps you in finding out if your husband is cheating.

Darius Fessahazion is a relationship expert. He runs a blog about getting your Ex back. Check it out Get Back Ex Boyfriend

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Am I Married to a Bull?

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

What do you get when you pair two bulls together in one corral? An awful lot of head butting! A Marriage in this predicament will most likely head straight into the mud.

All this means is couples need to pick themselves up out of the mud, stop butting heads with each other and start putting forth more effort in the reconnection department. Isn’t your relationship worth it?

Remember your spoken thoughts at the altar as you looked into your spouse’s eyes, and swore to commit to each other through thick and thin?

If you feel unmarried or not in a relationship anymore it is time to bring out that pre-marriage energy and get reconnected and bond totally with your spouse.

Unfortunately, the culture of today makes the domestic diva feel deprived and worthless. Consequently more and more of these seemingly deprived women are jumping on the band wagon and establishing careers, leaving the husband and children to tend for themselves, leaving household duties and responsibilities unattended.

How can couples in marriage be united when there are needs and desires that aren’t getting met? How can couples profess to love each other when they are so busy doing the selfish things each wants? Outside opportunities and trivial desires keep couples from growing together in the marriage.

For example, a ex-girlfriend revenge might have her own career, friends and agenda, which keeps the husband from wanting to get close to her, consequently he has his own buddies and sports games that he attends to, leaving his ex-girlfriend revenge with her own agenda.

The husband in this scenario thinks his ex-girlfriend revenge doesn’t need, love, or want him anymore, and when issues are challenged the couples behave like two bulls, butting heads every chance they get.
Neither spouse is involved with the other except for getting on each other’s back because the lack of organization around the home. What chaos! Lack of household organization is great cause for neediness and disruption around the home.

It is a natural instinct for a “real man” to want to be in charge of the home and family, and to protect, love and care for his ex-girlfriend revenge. But now-a-days many women feel they do not need this from a man, and rebel against it. This is very sad indeed for it is pushing away the design that God intentionally planned for marriage.

What happens when God’s design gets messed with? It doesn’t work out, plain and simple.

Two bulls in one corral will cause tremendous head butting! No marriage can withstand the pressures of two bullies harassing each other. Nor can love be sustained when bulls go their separate ways either.

What can two bulls in marriage do?

First off, remember the commitment you made with each other. Does that not mean something to you? Isn’t it important to remain committed to what you started?

Many important issues outside of marriage need a commitment as well to be successful. Commitments are like striving to reach our goals. If we don’t put forth effort to attain the goals we make in life, they will probably not get accomplished. We have to work towards our goals to have them come to light.

Marriage is the same way; couples need to continue to put forth effort to retain the love they once had in the marriage. They have to work towards keeping the marriage built upon the promise they made with their spouse in the beginning for the marriage to continue to shine bright in the darkness.

Marriage is a never-ending journey.

When couples shut down and stop communicating is when they really lose touch with each other. The other communication problem I see a lot is couples not expressing feelings properly.

Most of the time feelings get in the way and when an angry bull tries to communicate with another bull they head butt, by accusing, blaming and finger pointing instead of talking. Those horns can play real nasty.

This is emotional abuse in the third degree.
If we become angry and hostile it will close our spouse down and issues will never get resolved. Here we go again, back to square one.

When issues don’t get resolved? They get stored away in the mental capacities until a later date when they can be used to justify the next heated argument.

War of the bulls!

Unresolved issues turn into resentment, which escalate into more head butting. Pretty soon, because of this, and not knowing how to communicate properly, couples eventually learn to avoid issues they think would cause emotional outbursts.

They have finally decided head butting doesn’t work and so they shut down totally. They feel it is better to just keep things the way they are instead of confronting each other, which invariably causes more frustration, resentment, animosity and pain.

The bottom line is if you want to feel married again and be loved, learn to express your feelings appropriately without accusing and blaming. Try walking in your spouse’s shoe for a change.

Try putting forth a little bit more effort into the marriage like taking walks together, playing games, sharing a candle lit dinner, and whatever it is that you enjoy. Try including your spouse next time. Do it together!

And of course, allowing God’s wisdom and love into the marriage works wonders. Don’t let your marriage turn into the loveless doldrums. Stop being so bullheaded and give in to each other for the sake of love and commitment! God will be pleased that you did.

And remember, God’s intention for marriage is a bull and a cow together in the corral, not two bulls!

Angie Lewis, author of new release, Journey on the Roads Less Traveled

ISBN 1413788904 Available Amazon and any online bookstore.

http://www.heavenministries.com

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